Divorcing Your Spouse: How to Safely Remove Her From Joint Accounts

When you host a show on over 400 radio stations in the US about all things tech, this question pops up a bit: “How do I know if my partner is cheating on me?”

My best advice is to have an honest conversation with your partner, with the support of a couple’s therapist. However, cheating leaves a lot of technical breadcrumbs. You have to know where to look.

When the relationship ends, the life of technology must also be untangled.

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Start with a list

The longer you are in a relationship with someone, the more accounts, passwords, and devices you share. Sit down and write a list of everything that comes to your mind. Check your browser’s saved passwords for inspiration. Sign out one by one from each account on each device, then change your passwords.

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Password management

Here is a list that will make you think:

e-mail: If your ex has your password, you’re signed in on their device or you have a shared account or device, sign out and change your password.

Banks or other financial sites: Create a new account online with your new bank account.

Social media: Have you shared your passwords or logins to Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Twitter or other social media sites? Yes, change these passwords.

cloud storage: This includes access to your Apple accounts, Google Drive, Dropbox, and online backup accounts.

Online shopping: Amazon is a must. Look through your latest bank statements to remind yourself where else you have online accounts.

Next, I’ll walk you through the steps to sign out of each device on a few key sites and services.

The Google

Since your Google account can be associated with emails, contacts, location history, searches, photos, and more, this is a big deal to handle.

Here’s how to see each device that’s signed in to your account:

go to the google.com/devices. You will need to login.

You’ll see a list of devices that you’re currently signed in to or have been signed in to in the last 28 days.


You may see the same device several times, and this is normal. You can click on each one to see which browser was used. This could be information that someone else is signed in to β€” you see Microsoft Edge, for example, but you always use Chrome.

For any device that you know is not yours, click on it, then choose “Don’t recognize something?Google will remotely log this device out. Then, change your password.

Part of saying goodbye is getting rid of social media posts that mention your ex.This is way faster than swiping right one by one.


Your balance and money are tied to Amazon. Even if your ex doesn’t use your account to buy things, do you want him to see what you buy and stream? number.

Open Amazon, then hover your mouse over “Hi [your name], account and lists. ”

Under your account, click account.

Choose Login and security. You may need to sign in again.

At the bottom, you will see the message β€œIs the account hacked?” click Start.

A notification will be sent to your email address. Once approved, you can sign out of every device connected to your account. Do that, then change your password.

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Here’s how to see which devices are logged into your Facebook account. It is easiest to do this from a computer.

Sign in, then click down arrow in the upper right corner.

Click Settings and privacy > settings.

Finally, click Security and login.

You will see a section called Where are you logged in. Displays the two most recent devices and their approximate login locations. tap on See more Option for a wider view.

Carefully review each entry and look for sites you haven’t visited before or devices you don’t own.

Pro tip: If you’re using a VPN, this may be reflected in your previous locations. Check to see which city your VPN connects to before you panic.

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You can click the three dots next to a device from this page to select “Not you?” or “log out”.

The first option will give you more details about the device and its whereabouts, as well as steps to secure your account. The last option will log this device out.

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You can see each device that’s logged in and log out of it remotely in a few steps. It is easiest to do this task from your computer.

Sign in to your Netflix account. If you have multiple profiles, select your profile to go to the Netflix homepage.

Hover over your profile icon and select account.

In the Settings section, choose Sign out from all devices.

Confirm that you want to do this and click Exit.


Broadcasting is not just movies and TV. If you share a Spotify account, don’t forget to revoke access.

To sign out of all devices and browsers:

Log in to your account page.

click Sign out everywhere.

Be aware that this does not include speakers, TVs, or game consoles. To remove your account, go to your apps page and select Remove access.

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